Sooner
Swing
2,000 people
Our signature multi-day Oklahoma festival brings live entertainment, education, and hospitality together at a large scale.
Explore the eventWe bring people together.
And give businesses a reason to be part of it.
On The Border Lifestyle Co. LLC is an independent events and community company creating distinctive live experiences across the heart of the country.
6×
Attendance growth
over three years
Thousands.
Attendees across
our events
5 states.
A connected
regional footprint
A community
mindset.
A business
with momentum.
Since April 2022, we’ve turned a simple belief into a growing regional business: meaningful connections make memorable experiences.
We produce festivals, destination weekends, hotel takeovers, and educational programming for adults. Our work serves the lifestyle and consensual non-monogamy community, with hospitality, inclusion, and responsible event practices at its core.
For venues, sponsors, and collaborators, that means a direct connection to an established community through experiences people make time for.
Let’s explore the opportunity- Oklahoma
- Arkansas
- Kansas
- Southern Missouri
- North Texas
Big names.
Bigger possibilities.
Original event brands. A year-round community with over ten thousand members across the region.
Multiple ways to work together.
Sooner
Wicked
in the Wild
1,000 people
A distinctive campground takeover connecting music, workshops, vendors, and an immersive outdoor experience.
Explore the eventThe After
Halloween
Halloween Party
750 people
A two-day hotel takeover bringing our community together for a full weekend of entertainment and hospitality.
Explore the eventBeyond the flagship.
Regional gatherings. Hotel takeovers. Education. Travel collaborations.
Good company
to keep.
Our network connects event producers, travel brands, and community platforms. We’re proud to work alongside:
High energy.
Higher standards.
Trust is part of the work.
Consent, inclusion, education, and accountability shape how we bring people together.
NCSF
Coalition Partner
We support the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and its work advancing the rights, privacy, and freedom of consenting adults. Our commitment includes fundraising support.
View the coalitionAccredited
Safer-Sex Play Space
Our accreditation reflects an independent review of policies, practices, training, and implementation, reinforcing our commitment to consent and responsible community spaces.
Inclusion.
Education. Respect.
We welcome diverse identities and relationship structures. Educational programming and clear community expectations help make respect a shared responsibility.
Explore our communityYour business.
Our community.
Shared possibility.
Host the experience.
Bring your property into the conversation for festivals, destination weekends, and regional gatherings.
Be part of the moment.
Explore event sponsorships, vendor participation, and thoughtful brand collaborations.
Start a conversation.
Connect on interviews, editorial coverage, educational programming, or a project worth creating together.
LET’S
MAKE
CONNECTIONS.
Tell us about your business.
Let’s see where we can take it.